My Tryst !!

My Tryst with destiny is indeed sublime , 
they oft ridiculed and prophesised .
taunt and disdained.
But my faith fails to beckon a sordid rhyme 
persuasive and oblivious i move 
one step forward at a time .
I belive in destiny, but not all the time , 
sunshine in life aint everything, 
Coz even stars need a bit of darkness to shine

we get used to so many things without even our knowledge ... that when these things part from us , it leaves a dent ...

we cant figure out what made that dent ... coz it didnt matter that much .... but it did make a mark for itself ... before we even realised

imaginge a room filled with books in a room that has not been opened for a while...

when u open the room and lift a book , u will see a patch of floor that hasnt been touched as yet by the dust

unless u remove that book , u neevr know the patches it was covering

a time will come when all the books in the room will be lifted

and then the dust wud subside totally on the floor

but till the dust fills the gaps, the rememberance of the book remains

On the first Date !!

do what u feel is right

dont wear a shell around you that makes u inaccessible

be open and free

be what you are

dont stare at other girls when u are with her

appreciate her , her dress or anything that u find attractive

ask her what she wants to eat when you order food

hold her hand and say u have been trying palmistry for some time .....

make a few bluffs and then say ..... how soft her hands are

that trick is the best in good books of dating

its age old but works everytime

take a gift for her

probably something she wont expect from you

good that u have the strength to accept the facts

i didnt have so much courage

i hope that you will come out of it as soon as possible

the came to your life maybe for a reason ....

and she is leaving also for a reason

work on that change that she has maybe brought in you

it will help you in being a better person than what you are

the best thing about my breakup was that i respect relations now

and i understand the gravity

dont worry .....

accept the facts that you are sad

and let it flow

trust me , its a lot harder whan you press them against a walll

the wall aint gonna break but you surely will have a lot to push through

there are no failures ..... they are just setbacks

once you stop considering them as failures , you will never fail

when we say move on is life , we always change in some wy or the other..we may be able to get along and move ahead but there is always some part of us that died in that ordeal as part of collateral damage

life doesnt change with seasons, it changes with reasons... every crossroad in life has a reason, a reason that makes you what you are and lets you stand where you do today

Dont be always scared of a bump in the alley ... they might be the stairs that may take you up...
its not always necessary to be pessimistic about the lows that you have in your life. its normal . everyone has a fucking low time in his life. that low may be a frustration ... a desperation or at times can be just a thought that eats your sense of belief and understanding.
Having said that, how then can you make them ease off and get going in life. thats a "bastard" of a question.
people have an endless race with time trying to evolve out of setbacks and make a comeback. it sounds stupid and way off sense for someone who isnt in that state of mind as you are. much of the damage is done when there are things that you may not want to share with just anyone around you or may its because of the people who were supposed to know everything about your life.